Humans
are liable to experience a variety of afflictions, but they are commonly
endowed with a capacity for happiness and respectability. There is no
guarantee, however, that they will exercise this capacity at all times and to
the maximum, whatever happens. Depression and shame remain a possibility, which
increases with the severity of their afflictions and the difficulty of living
up to the values that are necessary for their happiness and respectability:courage, efficiency, wisdom, and nobility.
Living up
to these values is never easy, even under extremely favorable circumstances. It
requires an effort of will. To make or not to make this effort is the question,
central to the human existence. This question is difficult in proportion to the
weight of suffering that bears on humans, while their dignity hangs in the
balance. The more burdensome this weight, the more tempting it is for them to
take the easy way out. The fear of losing their dignity, however, is a strong
deterrent. There is no greater loss than that of dignity, save the loss of life itself. Yet, the easy way out is a very powerful temptation in extremely
unfavorable circumstances. Giving up instead of living up to the values
mentioned above is then deplorable but understandable. Excruciating circumstances
are extenuating ones.
Amazingly
enough, despite the burden of suffering that is oppressive to many, the
incidence of moral collapse - in the form of errant ways like carelessness,
vagrancy, and crime, often accompanied by alcohol or drug abuse to fuddle the
conscience - is small in comparison with the incidence of worthy behavior.
Furthermore, a moral collapse is remediable, except when the person concerned
shows an inveterate or congenital weakness, or a mental illness that is beyond
cure. On the whole, dignity can be lost and regained.
As for
those who resist quitting the struggle for worthiness, they rarely do their
best. In many instances their spirit is tainted with some degree of indulgence
in laziness, cowardliness, ineffectiveness, foolishness, selfishness, and
meanness. It has the grayness of dawn. Even those who shine like a late morning
sun have a shadow of imperfection at their heels. In short, humanity has yet to
fulfill its potential. While there is much courage, efficiency, wisdom, and nobility in the world, much happiness and respectability, there could be a
whole lot more. The key to this rise is an effort of will.
This is one of the most challenging of barriers to personal growth and development because where there exists negativity, doubt and fear, there can be no positive growth. Such negative emotions could our mind and prevent us from seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
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